1. DON’T DEAL
A relationship is supposed to be built on trust.
If your boyfriend is acting jealous without a good reason then maybe the best thing to do is move on to prevent yourself from having to deal with the baggage.
2. ACCEPTING THE ISSUE
Ask yourself if you really love him.
If you do love him and want the relationship to work then you’re going to have to learn to accept his insecurity and find ways to change it.
You’re going to have to accept it considering you knew it before you got too involved.
Accepting it means not yelling or arguing about it with your boyfriend.
3. WHAT IS THE ISSUE?
You can’t fix a problem until you figure out what the problem is!
Why is he jealous?
Did he have a troubled childhood and is needing to feel accepted?
Did he have a bad past relationship and wants to prevent the same things from reoccurring?
Try to find out where the problem lies.
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4. LISTEN TO HIM
With determining the problem you’re going to have to listen.
You’re never going to understand why he is jealous unless you listen to what he has to say.
In turn this will help you learn more about your jealous boyfriend and how to handle his insecurities.
5. TALK ABOUT IT
Arguing is only going to make the situation worst.
He is ultimately jealous due to his fear of you leaving him.
If you express your feelings assertively to him and not aggressively there is a good #chance his attitude will change in your favor.
6. BE OPEN WITH HIM
Don’t hide things from him.
Hiding #things from one another will only create a tension that in turn will cause friction like him being a jealous boyfriend.
It’s always best to be honest and open about how you feel to prevent any surprises or arguments in the future.
7. SET RELATIONSHIP RULES
This works Vice Versa!
Establishing a set of ground rules in a relationship is a good way to allow the other the knowledge of knowing what buttons not to press!
If the couple truly cares about one another and follows the set rules it will prevent a lot of arguments!
8. BUILD HIS CONFIDENCE
Make him feel good about himself!
Hearing compliments from you and understanding that you truly care about him will make him start to feel more confident With his new found confidence he will start to see other situations as less of a threat to his bond with you.
9. INVOLVE HIM
Involve him in your life.
Involving him in more aspects of your life will show him he has no reason to be paranoid
10. REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY
If you have tried #everything you can think of and all has failed try giving him a dose of his own medicine.
Act jealous for stupid reasons.
After he is showing #signs that you’re actions are bothering him explain to him that’s how you feel when he acts that way.
Maybe then he will see how silly he was acting and change for the better.
11. COMPROMISE
You've heard it before and you'll hear it again: relationships are all about compromise.
Find out what exactly makes him so jealous.
Is it the way you touch other men when you talk to them?
Then you can compromise by still talking to men, but watching your hands when you do so.
12. INTRODUCE TO MALE FRIENDS
If he's worried about you leaving him for one of your guy friends, introduce him to the gang!
Once he gets to know them and watch you interact with them, he'll see that he has nothing to worry about.
Plus, if he becomes a part of the group, then none of your friends will want to hurt him by stealing you away.
13. DON'T HANG OUT WITH MEN ALONE
It's understandable for your boyfriend to be worried about you spending alone time with another man.
If he doesn't want you to go out to a one-on-one dinner with your male friend, invite a few other pals along so that the occasion doesn't seem as intimate.
14. KEEP IN TOUCH
If you're out with other men, always text your boyfriend makes him feel reassured that you always have him in mind even in the company of others.
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